When life gets busy, the things that matter to you can be the first things you abandon. You intend to make time for your crystal and tarot practice, but deadlines, obligations, distractions, and other priorities get in the way. Before long, you start believing you’re someone who doesn’t follow through.

But what if the goal isn’t to create a perfect practice or find more time? What if it’s learning to come back to what matters?

In this episode, we’ll look at what “enough” means for your crystal and tarot practice and how deciding what is enough can help you make space for yourself, build trust in yourself, and create the practice you actually want.

YOU’LL LEARN:

✨ Why repeatedly putting your passions aside can change the way you see yourself.

✨ How defining “enough” can turn your desire for a crystal and tarot practice into something tangible.

✨ Why putting your practice on your calendar can help you make yourself a priority.

✨ How coming back after life gets in the way builds evidence that you can trust yourself.

✨ How Garnet supports grounding, connection to your desires, and coming back to what matters.

Life will get in the way. You will get distracted. Things will be forgotten.

You can still come back.

Tune in to discover what matters enough for you to come back to.

 

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00:00 Podcast Welcome

00:40 When Life Gets Busy

01:05 Micro Self Abandonment

02:28 Time Demands vs You

03:54 Define Enough

04:55 Schedule Your Practice

05:43 Garnet Support

06:54 New Moon Ritual Invite

07:56 Members Portal Next Step

08:54 Closing and Subscribe

Episode #118 – Come Back to What Matters With Garnet

Podcast Welcome

Welcome to the Crystal Self Healer Podcast. I’m Corissa Weaver. On this podcast, we blend the magic of crystals with the science of psychology to help you break free from chaos, ditch the overwhelm, and master your emotions so you can have more energy, get more done, and feel better every day. Get ready to unlock your intuition and restore your true power as we cover how you can transform your life using crystals and self-awareness.

Are you ready to get started? All right, let’s go

When Life Gets Busy

You’ve experienced the crunch.

The deadline for work.

The packed schedule.

Those kinds of urgent items on your to-do list.

And generally, these things aren’t the problem.

What is the problem is when these things get in the way of you actually having a crystal and tarot practice.

Micro Self Abandonment

These micro moments of self-abandonment create the lens you see yourself through.

Someone who doesn’t have a practice.

And you believe your thoughts when they arise because the evidence supports the statement.

That’s how on any given Tuesday afternoon when you were inspired by the post you saw about the astrological portal or the money ritual you saw on Instagram.

But when that time comes to actually do the thing, you stall.

Either you find yourself busy with other things, or you feel it’s too much to manage to gather what you need to get started.

Sometimes life doesn’t allow you to be where you want to be.

Deadlines, obligations, obstacles, and hurdles can present themselves and send you on side quests and detours, derailing that perfect schedule you established for yourself.

It’s not that those things aren’t important or that they don’t hold value.

But when you constantly abandon yourself, your dreams and desires by prioritizing these other things, you never get to experience the outcome you really desire.

Time Demands vs You

What you fill your time with matters.

Time is the resource most of you feel is limited.

And yes, we all have only a set time here on Earth.

But if you’re filling your time chasing the things that weigh you down, exhaust you, limit your ability to follow through with your passions, you miss out on creating more of what you want out of life.

The outside world will always demand more of you, your boss, your family, your garden.

Everything has its demands, yet yours often go unmet.

This gets forgotten because you have a lot going on.

You intend to do something, but your life gets busy.

Or you forget or get distracted and don’t get to come back to it.

You end up missing deadlines or not meeting goals.

Each time this happens, you feel out of control.

Like you can’t get things done or you’re a quitter.

And you certainly don’t feel like your crystal and tarot practice is integrated into your life.

Those astrologically aligned moments come and go, and you continually miss the moment.

And you still don’t have a crystal and tarot practice to show for it.

Define Enough

I’m not going to tell you to not do the important things in your life.

But if you have been talking about wanting to use your crystals and tarot, I invite you to consider what is enough.

Enough time to give to other things so you can have time to devote to your passion.

And this question of enough goes deeper than just with time.

Ask yourself what enough is for your practice to feel real and full.

Is it doing something daily?

Is it marking special occasions with ceremony and ritual?

Is it working solely with your crystals, solely with your tarot, or a combination of both?

These questions will focus your attention on things you can take action on instead of the vague and unachievable statements of simply not having time or wanting to have a practice.

Schedule Your Practice

Once you’ve answered these questions, I urge you to go and mark time in your calendar the same way you would mark a doctor or dentist appointment.

It’s quite common for women to prioritize everything else over the things she wants for herself.

But ask yourself why.

Why should your interests take a back seat?

If you treat your interests with the same weight and gravity you treat the needs of others, you put them in your calendar like they were a dentist appointment, and then you’re more likely to follow through.

As long as you consider your passions as enough to warrant your focused attention and time.

Garnet Support

I’m going to offer garnet as the crystal to support you here. Garnet offers a strong grounding energy which will support you in coming back to your passions that often go unattended.

By activating the root chakra, it supports you in creating a tangible version of your grand dreams in a way that is genuine, even if they are less elaborate than your dreams.

Also, because of its heavier energy, it helps to ward off the negative thought spirals that stem from your fear and worry about the reality of your crystal and tarot practice.

Garnet also helps you to connect with finding joy in the physical world, while also feeling supported in your needs and desires.

By pairing the energy of garnet with your desire to have a meaningful crystal and tarot practice, you create that physical reminder that when life pulls you away from your life, you can always come back to the things that matter to you.

New Moon Ritual Invite

If you want to start putting your crystal and tarot practice on the calendar like it is a dentist appointment, I invite you to join me each month for the New Moon Crystal Ritual.

The link to join is in the show notes.

It’s an opportunity for you to set aside time for yourself and your practice.

And with access to the replay, you have the opportunity to come back to the ritual even if your life throws hurdles and distractions that pull you away from it.

The New Moon Crystal Ritual is an opportunity for you to start practicing the act of setting aside the time and showing up for you because you’ve decided this is enough to start your practice.

When you look back a few months from now, you have built the evidence that has been missing from your awareness because you’ve chosen to show up or come back after life has pulled you away.

Members Portal Next Step

And when you’re ready to take it deeper, to have a fuller practice, you can join me inside the Crystal Self Healer members portal.

The portal offers the structure you need to get started, stay invested, and actually work with your crystals and tarot.

You’ll find your knowledge falls into place.

Your confidence will grow.

And you’ll finally feel like enough.

Like the person who actually flows with their crystal and tarot practice in their life because your calendar now shows that what you’ve decided is enough is what you’re showing up for.

Today’s episode has been brought to you by Garnet and Enough. May we all come back to what we value regardless of when life interrupts the best laid plans or dreams.

Blessed be, my friends.

Closing and Subscribe

All right, my friends, that wraps up this week’s episode. Thank you for joining me here today on the Crystal Self Healer Podcast. If you haven’t already, hit Subscribe, leave a review, and take the What Crystal is Best for You quiz linked in the show notes. Join me again next week as we continue to demystify crystals, how your brain works, and how you can use them so you can have more energy, get more done, and feel better every day