Manifestation begins with vibration. Having what you want is not just about wishing for it, but about creating an energy that aligns with your desires. If you want to attract what you want without resistance, this episode will show you how.

 

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If you’re ready to start being more confident in working with your crystals and tarot, to manifest more of what you want into your life, this episode offers insight on how you can become a magnet to attract what you want without resistance.

 

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00:00 Introduction to the Crystal Self Healer Podcast

00:40 Understanding Friction and Resistance

01:59 The Impact of Negative Focus

03:50 Spiritual Laws and Their Influence

05:25 Shifting Focus to Positive Intentions

07:21 Using Amethyst for Support

09:39 Building Confidence with Crystals and Tarot

11:07 Conclusion and Next Steps

Episode #104 – Attract What You Want Without Resistance

Introduction to the Crystal Self Healer Podcast

Welcome to the Crystal Self Healer Podcast. I’m Corissa Weaver. On this podcast, we blend the magic of crystals with the science of psychology to help you break free from chaos, ditch the overwhelm, and master your emotions so you can have more energy, get more done and feel better every day. Get ready to unlock your intuition and restore your true power as we cover how you can transform your life using crystals and self-awareness.

Are you ready to get started? Alright, let’s go.

Understanding Friction and Resistance

Our reality and experience is made up of friction and resistance.

Our bodies and everything in the world is a collection of vibrating atoms.

The speed at which they vibrate creates the experience and appearance of solidity.

Yet when we reach out to touch something, we are in essence feeling the resistance of this vibration.

As you go about your day-to-day experiences, you begin to learn what you like and don’t like.

Your brain doesn’t distinguish between what is an actual threat or a perceived threat so friction begins when your brain does what it does and fixates on what you don’t like or what seems scary or unsafe.

Because of this, it’s really easy to know what you don’t like or what you are against.

And your risk adverse amygdala will fixate on this in an effort to keep you safe and alive.

In metaphysics and spiritual law, this sets you up to perpetuate more of what you don’t want because there’s an energetic pull to bring more of what you focus on into your experience.

The Impact of Negative Focus

If you’ve found yourself stuck in a negative spiral and want to shift into a more positive experience, this episode is for you.

We are going to cover how you can use crystals to work with spiritual laws to become a magnet for what you want.

All too often people feel blocked from achieving their goals and dreams all the while not always recognizing that they are the source of the block.

When you fixate on how the result you have isn’t the result you want, a number of things happen to exacerbate your reality.

For example, if you’ve ever found yourself saying you don’t know what to do with your crystals or you don’t know how to interpret your tarot cards, you are fixating on your perceived lack.

That in and of itself blocks you from recognizing or tapping into what knowledge you do have.

Additionally, when you’re seeing the negative side of things, you block your own access to opportunity and creativity, meaning you limit your ability to see or build bridges with the knowledge you do have.

I recognize that there’s been a good job done by closed systems of practice and belief to make you believe that if you don’t carry the right lineage or credentials that you can’t or don’t measure up.

But unless you are aligned with or practicing those traditions and lineages, their rules don’t have to apply to you.

That friction you’re focusing on doesn’t have to be your reality.

So let’s examine what’s actually going on here.

Spiritual Laws and Their Influence

There are three spiritual laws at play.

First is the law of vibration, which teaches that, like attracts like. So if you’re focused on the negative, that’s what your experience will be.

Second is the Law of Resonance, which teaches that as an energetic being, the thoughts and feelings you have are emitted out into the world around you, like a beacon of what you want to attract.

Third is the law of attraction, building on the law of resonance, because this is what calls in all that negative you’ve been focusing on.

When you experience and live these negative consequences, you will find yourself in a negative feedback loop, which makes it easy to think that you just don’t have good luck, or that good things just aren’t meant for you, or you just don’t have what it takes to confidently work with your crystals and tarot.

A lot of advice out there tells you to focus on the positive, to swap out the negative with the positive.

In essence this is good advice, but it’s not setting you up for success when you don’t address the deeper vibrations going on within your mind, body, and spirit.

This is where most people get stuck in manifesting, where they don’t see the results they desire, and then give up because the desired outcome seems elusive.

Shifting Focus to Positive Intentions

To change your experience and become the magnet for what you want, you interrupt the existing cycle with focused intention.

Focused intention isn’t just swapping out a negative thought with a positive one.

It’s building a foundation of desire and belief that allows you to be the resonance of what you do want, which then allows you to curate your life so it shows up as your experience.

And focusing your attention on what you do want is a key component to creating this new reality.

Let’s bring this back to your desire to know how to use your crystals and tarot for your own personal healing or to support and help others.

When you’re focused on your lack, whether that’s lack of knowledge, lack of skill, or lack of experience, you probably won’t wake up one morning in the future feeling proficient.

Yet that’s where your vibration is, in lack, and your experience is bringing that awareness into your daily life.

It’s easy to notice where and when you aren’t using your crystals and tarot, or to feel that feeling of inferiority when thinking about how to use them.

These thoughts and awarenesses are the vibrations, the tension and friction, that keep you resonating with your sense of lack.

What you don’t often notice going on in that fraction of a second in your mind is the spiral of doubts, fears, and self-fulfilling prophecies your mind and body remembers but doesn’t bring to your conscious mind.

The subtle shift is to release the focus of the negative thoughts and to find the direction your brain needs to create what you do want.

Using Amethyst for Support

That’s where I would suggest working with Amethyst.

Amethyst has a protective energy about it, allowing you to feel supported and safe as you go about making changes in your life.

It also supports divine connection, which will help you in tapping into your highest and best self, while also recognizing the guidance of your spirit guides.

Amethyst is also known to support in releasing addictions.

Yes, it’s been most commonly associated with physical vices like alcohol, but can you really say that the unconscious repetition of negative thoughts is different than an addiction you currently don’t have mastery over?

That said, as you go about your daily life, focusing on what you do want, notice how what you’re experiencing feels like in the moment.

When you pick up your crystals or tarot, notice the aligned and misaligned feelings that come up.

Instead of focusing on the negative ones, focus on the fact that you did pick up your crystals and tarot, that you did take a step in the direction of where you want to be and use that as the launching point to get to your end result.

This bridge thought feels better, aligns with your goal, which also creates the resonance and vibratory state that calls in your desired outcome to be proficient and confident in working with your crystals and tarot.

Obviously this first step doesn’t bend time and put that end goal in your immediate reality.

But what it does do is show your brain the path, that next step that allows your brain to not need to shift into a vagus nerve reaction of fight or flight, stress, and tension.

You will end up feeling more in control.

You’ll be laser focused on your next steps, and you’ll have clarity on your goal and how you may have been repelling it.

You’ll also be able to shift the vibrations you send out into the world to create that magnetic force that brings what you want to you.

Building Confidence with Crystals and Tarot

Many of the women I work with come to me already aware of where they feel blocked, but unsure how to gain confidence and skill with using crystals and tarot.

If you are ready to start building that confidence, the Crystal Self Healer members portal was designed to give you all the support you need as you heal and balance your energy, dismantle the stories and beliefs that keep you second guessing yourself while you deepen and master your skills.

Inside the portal, you’ll find healing sessions to help you process emotions, rituals to anchor and direct energy and ongoing support when you feel stuck along with courses, workshops, and activations that foster mastery and spiritual alignment.

Everything inside the portal is there to help you recognize and interrupt the patterns and cycles that keep repeating so you can move forward with more ease and alignment.

Visit my website, www.threecharmedgems.com or click the link in the show notes to learn more and join me.

Now is the time to stop living at the mercy of emotional triggers and start moving into spiritual integrity.

The Crystal Self Healer members portal is where that shift begins. Find your clarity and come home to yourself.

Conclusion and Next Steps

Today’s episode has been brought to you by Amethyst and Resistance. May we all dismantle our inner resistance to become the practitioners we are destined to be.

Blessed be, my friends.

All right, my friends, that wraps up this week’s episode. Thank you for joining me here today on the Crystal Self Healer Podcast. If you haven’t already, hit subscribe, leave a review and take the what Crystal is best for you quiz linked in the show notes. Join me again next week as we continue to demystify crystals, how your brain works and how you can use them so you can have more energy, get more done, and feel better every day.