Create closure with crystals, even when you don’t get the apology, explanation, or justice you deserve. In this episode, we explore how to use a crystal ritual to reclaim your power, and create closure after loss, breakups, or trauma.

 

Learn how to support emotional healing through crystal healing when resolution is out of your hands. We build on the Kubler-Ross stages of grief to help you process the pain, find spiritual alignment, and restore emotional clarity – all without needing answers from anyone else.

 

YOU WILL DISCOVER:

 

🔮 Why closure doesn’t come from others, but from inner alignment.

🔮 What keeps you stuck in emotional pain long after the event has passed.

🔮 How Orange Calcite supports closure and clears up emotional stagnation.

🔮 A step-by-step crystal ritual for creating closure and healing trauma.

 

Listen now and begin your journey to emotional closure and self-healing.

 

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00:00 Introduction to the Crystal Self Healer Podcast

00:40 The Human Need for Closure

03:06 Exploring the Empress Card

04:22 Creating Your Own Closure

06:45 The Power of Orange Calcite

08:17 Crystal Ritual for Closure

10:12 Join the Charmed Community

12:02 Conclusion and Next Steps

Episode #82 – Create Closure After Loss, Breakups, or Trauma

Introduction to the Crystal Self Healer Podcast

Welcome to the Crystal Self Healer Podcast. I’m Corissa Weaver. On this podcast, we blend the magic of crystals with the science of psychology to help you break free from chaos, ditch the overwhelm, and master your emotions so you can have more energy, get more done and feel better every day. Get ready to unlock your intuition and restore your true power as we cover how you can transform your life using crystals and self-awareness.

Are you ready to get started? Alright, let’s go.

The Human Need for Closure

With the shows you watch, or movies you see, many offer a sense of completion neatly presented within its allotted time.

If we look at how humans go about storytelling from fables to modern tv, everything has a neat beginning, middle, and end.

It’s how we package everything up to make sense of it. So is it any wonder that when something in your life is left unresolved, you crave closure? That definite emotional ending?

This desire for closure creates emotional conflict.

And how do you heal and move on when you don’t have a stable base to rebuild upon?

In a world where resolution isn’t always readily available, we are going to explore things you can do to create your own sense of peace. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a practice you can use to create your own closure by using crystals.

I’ve been thinking about closure a lot over the last couple weeks, inspired by events happening with one of my kids.

It’s no secret that relationships end, people die, and jobs are lost.

Whether it’s from a freak accident, an illness, to the end of a relationship, for the most part, unless you are the instigator, these circumstances will never lend themselves to true unfiltered honesty or absolute knowing of why what happened happened.

Because we don’t know the reasons why, that’s what makes the process of healing worse, and you might fight against having no closure.

Nature doesn’t offer closure or resolution per se, but the stories and narratives humans create that creates the expectation for it. The expectation that resolution comes from outside through apology, explanation, justice, reciprocation. It’s what keeps the wound open.

Closure comes from being able to move through the emotions associated with the event, with the loss.

Exploring the Empress Card

For our card this week, we are going to focus on the energy to call in and the Empress card. Traditionally, this card is a symbol for creativity, resources, and motherhood, and you can deduce these themes by looking at the imagery.

This woman wearing a dress with pomegranates all over it. She’s sitting amid a lush forest with golden wheat in front of her and flowing water to her side.

And she’s sitting atop pillows and blankets with a scepter and star laden tiara atop her head.

This woman is showing she has the creativity to set up this fancy perch amid all the lushness and resources that make up what nurtures all life, mother Earth.

When you’re nursing the wounds of a loss, Empress energy, that nurturing and motherly energy is what will feel most comforting.

Loss has a way of making you feel like the rug has been pulled out from under you, so having access to what helps you feel like you are safe and part of this world will support you as you heal.

Creating Your Own Closure

In her work with terminally ill patients, Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross compiled five stages of grief she observed most people go through, but not in a linear order. What she had been observing was the emotions and ways her patients were dealing with an abrupt realization or shock, similar to what we’ve been discussing here today.

While her work has been criticized as anecdotal, it does provide a framework to support processing a situation that feels unfair or traumatic.

When the cause of your hurt doesn’t make sense, you can find yourself wanting answers or relief by or from other people.

This is when you find yourself wishing you had been given more details or that you had received a more obvious or clear resolution.

This hands the power of your peace to someone or something else. And when that resolution doesn’t arrive, like it most often doesn’t, the ache calcifies into bitterness, fixation, or helplessness.

Even when you do, when someone returns an apology or a clear explanation, it doesn’t work unless you’ve already done the internal work to receive it without needing it.

You have to make your own peace with the situation. You need to create your own closure and not rely on getting it from someone or somewhere else.

You reclaim autonomy and authority over your life, your story, regardless of what is going on in the world external to you.

Closure is an internal shift where you stop investing energy into unresolved questions or unmet expectations, especially when no external resolution is possible.

You create resolution when you stop waiting for something you may never get.

You experience realignment when you adjust to live with what is.

And you rebuild your sense of self when you fill your life with what brings you joy and peace.

The Power of Orange Calcite

The crystal I’m going to offer that will support you here is Orange Calcite, and here’s why.

When you’re focusing on understanding why something happened, you’re often experiencing grief, confusion, or bitterness, sometimes getting stuck here. Orange Calcite helps release pent up emotions and stimulates a sense of lightness and clarity so you can start forward momentum.

Creating closure means you’re no longer waiting for someone else’s explanation, but writing your own version of the experience. By activating the sacral chakra, Orange Calcite fuels the creative energy required to reframe the story, find meaning, and reclaim your voice.

We all know that an emotional blow can create lethargy and exhaustion, and it can be hard to move on, even if you know that’s what is best for you. Orange Calcite holds an invigorating energy that will boost confidence to take the next step.

Orange Calcite is also excellent for aligning your thoughts and your will, helping you to overcome feelings of depression, shyness, or fear. It keeps you from getting lost in or over identifying with the pain so you can make peace with what is, rather than yearning for what could have been.

Crystal Ritual for Closure

Now here is a crystal ritual you can do with your Orange Calcite. To create closure.

You’ll need a clear surface, a few pieces of Orange Calcite, a Clear Quartz point, and other crystals that you feel support your energetic needs, maybe Lepidolite or Blue Kyanite.

Take some time to get calm and centered in the present moment by focusing on your breath.

When you feel grounded in the moment, bring your attention to the matter at hand, creating closure for yourself.

Focus on how that will feel, how it will benefit your daily life.

We’re not interested in how the closure will be created, by whom, or when, but the feeling of being free from the weight of the situation.

If your mind wanders to what is missing or what is wrong, gently bring it back to the feeling of closure that you desire.

Allow this desired feeling to expand throughout your body, from the tips of your toes to the crown of your head.

Enjoy this feeling and when you feel fully anchored in it, pick up your Clear Quartz and place it in the center of your designated space.

Surround the Clear Quartz with the other crystals in a pattern that is beautiful to you. Maybe follow a sacred geometry pattern or any other shape that connects you to the feeling you’ve just built.

Once you’ve completed placing the crystals, activate the grid you’ve just made and allow it to be in your space undisturbed as you do the inner work associated with creating the emotional freedom that closure brings.

Join the Charmed Community

Today’s pairing of the Empress with Orange Calcite is from a recent crystal and tarot forecast inside the Charmed Community.

I invite you to join me in this free space where I share these readings weekly to help you align your energy and focus your week.

You’ll also get the opportunity to connect with others who are exploring their growth and creating change in their lives just like you.

Join us for free, the link is in the show notes.

And if you’re tired of being on an emotional rollercoaster, constantly juggling everything in your life, and you want to be part of a space that holds you in your healing, a space where you can feel seen, supported, and connected, I would love to have you join me inside the Crystal Self Healer members portal.

It is where we go beyond the weekly guidance and we apply it to your life, equipping you with the tools, resources, and support to build your confidence in crystal healing and emotional self-care.

Inside you get personalized coaching, healing sessions, rituals, and everything you need to truly empower yourself to live with more ease and alignment.

Visit my website, www.threecharmedgems.com or click the link in the show notes to learn more and join me. It’s time to stop living at the mercy of emotional triggers and start living in spiritual integrity. The Crystal Self Healer members portal is where that shift begins. Find your clarity and come home to yourself.

Conclusion and Next Steps

Today’s episode has been brought to you by the Empress, Orange Calcite, and closure. May we all take on the inside job of creating closure for ourselves. Blessed be, my friends.

All right, my friends, that wraps up this week’s episode. Thank you for joining me here today on the Crystal Self Healer Podcast. If you haven’t already, hit subscribe, leave a review and take the what Crystal is best for you. Quiz linked in the show notes. Join me again next week as we continue to demystify crystals, how your brain works and how you can use them so you can have more energy, get more done, and feel better every day.